I can take it wide but not for long.

[owen2032]

OK Folks,

So here's my dilemma and no doubt the dilemma of a few other fellow fisters. I can take a fist and a dildo up to 4 inches wide BUT my problem is I can't take it for more than a minute or two. I hear about my brethren holding dildos and or a fist inside them for minutes and even hours on end. How do you get to this point?

The longest I've ever gone with a dildo inside me was with the Fat man in a barrel plug. Wide with no taper so it definitely holds you open. I managed to hold it for 4 minutes with it buried deep inside me WITH the help of poppers. Without poppers I can't go more than 2 minutes so this is perplexing to me. I heard that there is a point you reach where you just kick and buck and your body is doing everything it can to kick that toy out of your ass but once you get past this point it just accepts it and things calm down. If this is true, how long do I have to endure before I reach this state of so called "bliss"?

I'm using top of the line lubes and lots of it, I don't feel pain or discomfort, just the overwhelming urge to eject my toys once they have spent 1-2 minutes inside me. Can someone help me? I want to get to the point where I can sit on a 3.75-4 inch wide dildo at my desk and just surf the net.


Thanks for the read and here's hoping someone can help. :)


Cheers

O

[actionboy]

hi Ya

a real problem 1 find a nice big old top to sit on your shoulders :tongue:


2 Or relax what you can only take for a few moment this week in a week or two will slide in no probs and you are off down the toy shop for somthing bigger

regards
actionboy

[AtlantaB]

There's something in what action boy says.
Maybe you need to practice holding something a little smaller in for longer periods.
You need to get feeling comfortable with something inside you and build up from there.

[owen2032]

Well I can hold a 2.5 inch plug in me for a long time but any bigger than that and it gets very difficult.

[crotchshaver]

Have you tried a buttplug harness?

[owen2032]

Never have.... Don't know if I could handle it lol

[AtlantaB]

Try using a 2.5 dildo instead of a plug. Perhaps you need to develop a bit of depth as well.

[owen2032]

I think you're right Atlanta. I can take the 2.5 no problem and for awhile. Never tried an hour before so I'll give that a shot and let you know.

Thanks for the help lads!

[marmotllah]

just wondering has anyone found a butt plug harness in uk, i cant seem to find one?

[AtlantaB]

Try Love Honey:

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/s.cfm?term=butt+plug+harness&x=23&y=11

[actionboy]

i have tried to mak harneses but i find very dificult to make a plug or dildo stay in though the idea is so appealing that i may have another go .
i think that keeping one infor a time would help stretching or just make you horny walking about doing stuff,

i have the nice fat torpedo plug frm CM nice fit but if i get it well in my ass closes around the neck it wil sty inthen but bit of a bitch to get out
actionboy

[AtlantaB]

Why not try the technique I suggested on this page

http://www.gayfisters.com/forums/showpost.php?p=10477&postcount=1

The top dildo shown is 9 cm thick before it spreads out to the heavy base (14 cm)

I often spend an hour or so with myself enjoying the feel of this feller fully inserted. After a while I want something deeper than the 10 inches this offers. After sitting on the first one for a while the next one goes in like a dream.

[actionboy]

hi
i have al;so experemented with using soft toy balls as springs though i used a old bog seat and some bits of wood withthe ball as the spring .
I thinki over did the spring ans should use les spring and go slower tak more time if i had my own place i would spend more time on this
actionboy

[greazy1952]

wanting to expel large objects is only normal and yes part of the great pleasusre you get ... I'm finding very small long dildoes are lots of fun.. Its difficult to find ones like 24 or 36 inches with only 1 inch diameter but if you do you can reach great depths... I use a shower douche and have gone in as far as 42 inches... its the water pressure that helps... my goal is to purchase a 36 inch colon snake and take it all... I often keep y 12 inch small dildo in me for long periods but when I put in my very wide toys (3 inch +) they want to shoot out but gosh does it feel good trying to keep them in.. In summary practice makes perfect.