Are some body types not fistable?

[Paladian]

I am hoping to get some stretching advise. I have been stretching my asshole about every other day to give my cunt a rest from the workout I give, but I can't seem to be able to take a fist yet. I use crisco. Tried J-lube but it is messy and nasty.

I start out my slowly using regular size dildos, next I move to my large butt plug and play with it for a while, and then I shift to my XXL butt plug. I bounce on it, I sit on like its a chair so my hole will stretch to take a fist.

I have a FB and we both enjoy taking the "Python" X-large double headed dildo and we can ride together for a long while, but when it comes to taking a fist it seems no one can get past their knuckles. My fist top cones his hand (he has small to medium size hands) but my ass won't open.

I'm not small boned, why can't I open up further to take a fist? What do I need to do. I am hitting the bottle of poppers all the time to further relax me. I want a nice, loose, man cunt. It has been suggested that I may need to start pumping my ass. Has anyone experience this issue of not being able to take a fist after stretching? Any suggestions? Please don't tell me I'm not fistable.

[HansIndeep]

Pal,
Skip the plugs and work with wider and wider dildos or toys. Plugs do not stretch to hand-in-hole depths, nor do they work for constant opening of the whole ass. Work up to keeping a 3" dia toy in at least 7" or deeper in for 1/2 hr or more at a time. Fuck it back and forth to work the hole open wider and deeper. Skip the pumping until you get fucking and punching a hand...you will find you do not need it.
Fuck it well and you will cum!

Hans

[trsyd]

Pal you have my sympathy as I to have yet to take a fist and it is not for the want of trying....however I have confidence that with more practice it is only a matter of time before one slips in.....bring on that day I say
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[AtlantaB]

If your J-Lube is messy and nasty perhaps you should be spreading a towel to collect the drips and leaks. J-Lube is the stuff for fisting, but maybe you are not putting it deep enough inside. I agree plugs do not really do the job. Count on three to six months before you can properly take a fist. Work up from small dildos to thick. Once you get over a 3" diameter you are getting to fistable size.

[Paladian]

HansIndeep and AtlantaB, thank you both for the good advice. I have ordered some large dildos and plan to start working up to the 3" diameters. I plan to take a fist by year's end.

[reb1959]

It takes about an hour for me to be good and cleaned out. Sure, I enjoy the time during the clean out, but then the fun starts. I am a bi male and I love anal play. As for fisting, I have done this a little, but getting into it more and more. I have been fucking my ass for a long time now and I can take a small to med. hand at this time. If you can find a person, (male/female) with small to med. hands, you should let them work on you. As for lube, it just depends on what you like. I don't use anything except water, for some reason that is what works for me.

[AtlantaB]

HansIndeep and AtlantaB, thank you both for the good advice. I have ordered some large dildos and plan to start working up to the 3" diameters. I plan to take a fist by year's end.

Hi Paladian, good on you mate. Just work on getting comfortable with progressively larger dildo sizes.
Don't forget to get the lube inside as well as outside. A syringe will help ...
If the dildo is painful when you push it in. Try taking it out completely and putting it back in. You'll find that second time round it's much more comfortable.
Poppers are a useful aid in exploring the larger sizes at first.
Other people find that marijuana and ecstasy are also helpful.

[user1234]

I personally favor inflatable tools for stretching. There are some excellent inflatable dildos available, I think mostly made by Denber Rubber that are widely available in three sizes. There are additionally two styles, one with a firm insert inside and one without. The insert is useful during initial insertion, especially in the largest size. My personal favorite is the medium sized one without the insert as it works the best for getting really deep and into the curvier parts of the colon. The medium one can get bigger than the largest one starts, up to about 12 inches in circumference which is at least as big as the largest fist you are likely to encounter.

One advantage to inflatable devices is that they don't tend to be quite as rough on the sphincter as trying to force something tapered into your hole. They just press directly out, and without forcing a particular shape. I have plenty of other toys, but I still like the easy adjustability of something you can pump up (or fill with water).

Since these are rubber, Crisco will probably be a little hard on them over time. I use J-lube in a fairly heavy mix. I have found a bulb syringe to be very helpful in getting plenty of lube up inside.

Hope this helps. There is nothing better than a real hand inside.

[AtlantaB]

I like inflatables at the time, i.e. when I'm using them, but the only times I have hurt my hole have been when I've used inflatables. I usually discover the damage the next day in the form of a pile or two.

[ich1]

I've been working on Bam and Chi Chi Larue's Black Balled Dildo. Try to work up to these, that's how I took my own fist for the first time, and I always thought I was 'not fistable'. I started with Kong, then got John Holmes UR3, Bam, and Chi Chi.

[Fistrik]

I totally agree with user1234
Inflatable toys stretch the best, and in a natural way. From the inside out.
And the medium sized of the three (which has the name "Large") should do it.
And use J-Lube.

Some people just are not build to take a fist. Ask an experienced fister to investigate.

The way do describe your use of poppers gives me the impression like you are desperate. And this won't help you. Find the experienced fister you trust and who is able to makes you totally relaxed. Then you don't even need poppers at all!

[bottomless]

not all guys can take the fist. the same way not all guys can swallow a 12" cock to the base. But most of the guys, after proper training can take a hand inside them. Pain and discomfort will subside with time and pleasure will replace pain. One thing: accept only what you can think. Your body will tell you. Do not exaggerate and don t be in a hurry. Good result come with time and training. I learnt how to take toys and then bigger toys, and then the hand and more. In two years or so you will be able to open up completely, receive big hands, punch action and show your rosebud in blossom.

[AtlantaB]

I agree with Fistrik that the best of the inflatables is the medium size.
When you use the inflatable have your FB lube your hole up and push the inflatable gently into your hole - ALL THE WAY - Once it's inside so that only the hose is sticking out, have him slowly inflate the dildo. You will feel yourself filling up. Take it slowly, letting your hole adjust to the size. Keep on inflating until nothing happens anymore. Relax a little and very gently try pushing on the dildo as if you were taking a crap. You should be able to push it out.
After pushing the dildo out your hole will be really loose and sloppy for a few minutes. Your FB should then be able to push his hand in real easy.