Straight to Gay Sliding Scale

[PIGGY1984]

Hi peeps, I'm a bi married (to a girl) guy aged 24. I have been experimenting sexually since I was 8 and have done most things one can imagine.

Here is my beef,
Quite a few guys, mainly older, have suggested that I am gay not straight and incinuated that I shouldn't even be with my wife.

I know what I am and like, I would say I am 90% str8 because I'm just not that attracted to guys.

I have a friend who is a psychosexual therapist and he says that everyone is on a sliding scale between homosexual and straight.
I just want to know your opinions.

[owen2032]

Dude, You do what you want. I'm the same as you and I know I'm NOT gay but I do like to have my ass played with. I don't know what that makes me, I just know what I like. Be true to yourself and screw labels.

[AtlantaB]

I'm bi with a slight leaning towards the gay end.
There is something called the Kinsey scale and if you're interested there are even fairly simple tests that you can do to see where you come on that scale.
Personally I believe that the great majority of men fall somewhere between the extremes, but there are always die hards who will try and convert you to their point of view.

[FoxHole]

I think of Sexuality not being so Black and White... its more shades of grey between Gay and Straight.

[hairy4me]

According to then surveys 95% of the male population had at least once some homoerotic experience. It does not mean that all of them are gay.
In the army my soldier buddy was said because his girlfriend left him. He got drunk and than he fucked me. I dont think that he fucked any other man after.
We both had fun and that is all.
So dont be bothered by the labels. Just do what makes you happy!! If it is with men, than let it be...

[DrWens]

For me it is the other way around. I am mostly attracted to men, sexually as well as emotionally. However, I get turned on by women from time to time and I like to experiment.

[pranavaw]

I think you have the best of both, a woman to live and love with and have a normal life and also like to play with men. Good luck and be careful and happy.

[str8jkt]

I am actually surprised that this thread has lasted this long without some die hard gay member ranting about the name of this site. I am glad too see that there are others like me out in this forum. I too am married to a female, but would consider myself bisexual. Actually, you could label me try-sexual, since I am willing to try anything once. Although I cannot say that I am attracted to men, i do like to jump over the fence every once in a while. Lately, I have had the desire to have a m\m encounter, but as stated, I do not go searching for it.

What makes my situation unique is that my wife know and even encourages me at time to go out and seek some fun. To me, honestly though...... I have a wife that is willing to fist me, ram my ass with toys, vegetables and even records it for online uploading.
So you tell me..... am I the luckiest guy or what?

[owen2032]

i am actually surprised that this thread has lasted this long without some die hard gay member ranting about the name of this site. I am glad too see that there are others like me out in this forum. I too am married to a female, but would consider myself bisexual. Actually, you could label me try-sexual, since i am willing to try anything once. Although i cannot say that i am attracted to men, i do like to jump over the fence every once in a while. Lately, i have had the desire to have a m\m encounter, but as stated, i do not go searching for it.

What makes my situation unique is that my wife know and even encourages me at time to go out and seek some fun. To me, honestly though...... I have a wife that is willing to fist me, ram my ass with toys, vegetables and even records it for online uploading.
So you tell me..... Am i the luckiest guy or what?



yes you are!!!! Lol

[actionboy]

I am actually surprised that this thread has lasted this long without some die hard gay member ranting about the name of this site. I am glad too see that there are others like me out in this forum. I too am married to a female, but would consider myself bisexual. Actually, you could label me try-sexual, since I am willing to try anything once. Although I cannot say that I am attracted to men, i do like to jump over the fence every once in a while. Lately, I have had the desire to have a m\m encounter, but as stated, I do not go searching for it.

What makes my situation unique is that my wife know and even encourages me at time to go out and seek some fun. To me, honestly though...... I have a wife that is willing to fist me, ram my ass with toys, vegetables and even records it for online uploading.
So you tell me..... am I the luckiest guy or what?

yes you are and where are the vids

as a bi guy i dont do lables i have fun all sorts of things turn me on so much so it can be anoying
actionboy

[AtlantaB]

I think that what we're seeing here is that enjoyment of anal stimulation is far from limited to exclusively gay men, which perhaps explains why no ultra gays have complained. Personally I don't care if the fist is male or female. There is a difference in style though, and I find that sex with other men often has a more adventurous "hard edge" feel to it. But that could just be me.

[Pacifist68]

Must admit, i've never really thought about whether i'd take a female fist or not. Though i agree not really fussy about what goes up there.

thinking about it, i might quite like the extra domination aspect of taking a female fist, esp if it was something a straight guy wanted to see me do.

[AtlantaB]

There was quite a discussion about this issue over a year ago on this forum.
The admin shut the thread down, which you can find here | http://www.gayfisters.com/forums/showthread.php?t=191&page=9 (http://www.gayfisters.com/forums/showthread.php?t=191&page=9)

There are some members who object to discussions about women. It was also suggested in this other thread that another forum caters to bisexual fist fucking. Unfortunately that other forum does not let you talk about drug use and even frowns on talk about poppers, and will ban you if you refer to sex under the age of 18.
Like Owen I am an active member on this forum and I would be very sorry not to continue posting here. So I am careful not to talk too much about women or the fact that my regular fisting partner these days is my wife. Sure I'd like a man to do it, but at the age of 63 and after 30 odd years of marriage to a woman I'm sure going to rearrange that part of my life.
So sorry about that guys and keep fisting!

[andi132]

I'm with Atlanta B on this one, not only because we're fairly close in age, but because we're both in committed relationships that are stable and bring their own brand of happiness and fulfillment.
I discovered the cloudy area of mansex or gaysex, whichever you prefer, 12 years ago. Avoiding labels and judgements during this time has revealed a lot to me about myself and how I view other people and that has been priceless. It is not for everyone, I'll be quick to admit, but I wouldn't trade one second of it.