Premature Ejaculation / 'Edging' and related...

[TampaBayFF]

Hi Guys -
I'd like to get some thoughts and opinions on how best to prevent premature ejaculation.

I'm predominately a bottom but one big reason for this is because the minute I get my dick in a hot hole - I wanna fire off like a cannon! It just feels to damned good. I've always been so mucher better as a Fuckee than a Fucker. I'd like to be good at both!

I'd love to be able to fuck a hole, enjoy it and make it last.
Does it just take practice and 'desensitization'?

As a bottom, I can play and play and play..even after cumming.
But - as a top.......POP goes the weasle!

Any thoughts?

[AtlantaB]

Have you heard of a Fleshlight?
Try practising holding back while using one of these toys. You'll get better at holding back. You can also think of horrible things too, like algebra or the pictures on Lurid Digs.

http://www.luriddigs.com/

Good luck :cool:

[stupot]

I'm exactly the same. I've never found an easy answer to this. Some of the advice seems a bit esoteric.
It seems to be physicality of fucking. I've not the same problem with blow jobs. Usually when the feeling starts ( and it often does as soon as I go in ), I know I'll have to pull out or ejaculate.
Some drugs seem to dampen the onset of 'the point of no return'.

But the good news is that, as I can cum easily, I can cum five to six times in a session. It's not good for fucking, because it's never quite as hard as the first time - but it's good for me!