Dildo position

[vango921]

Just curious and new to this site. When using a dildo and try to expand and extend is there any particular position of the body that accomodates these goals, i.e., relaxing in a prone position, sitting-up, flat on the back, etc.,, or is just whatever is convenient and works for each individual? Cheers

[webmaster]

I moved your post away from the Public Fisting thread and created a new thread for you. I have no idea why you replied to the Public Fisting thread, seems kinda off-topic :confused:

In future please post in the correct forum and do not hesitate to start a new thread. For some reason there are people who think that they must reply to an existing thread instead of creating a new thread.

[owen2032]

Just curious and new to this site. When using a dildo and try to expand and extend is there any particular position of the body that accomodates these goals, i.e., relaxing in a prone position, sitting-up, flat on the back, etc.,, or is just whatever is convenient and works for each individual? Cheers


For me squatting is the best position. Since I usually use large toys so I need to all my weight to get them in thus the squat. :)

[pig4toys]

It really just depends on the toy. Long toys that are for going deep, try your back or lay on your side. For big wide toys, you need to be on your feet (or toes) and squat on that bitch. Big hit of poppers....I mean a BIG hit...and get down on it and push!! Eventually you will start to open up -- maybe not that session but you will get to knwo your limits and push yourself further, especially when you thought you've ruptured something only to find out you are perfectly okay -- not blood nothing and then wishing you would have control it better and stuck with it. Get inside your head and listen to you body...but also let your brain tell your body that it needs to relax and let it happen.

[HANDBALLER]

I agree with pig... I have played & played squatting on toys and just when I don't think I can take it any more, BAM it pops right in its that brief moment of pain vs. pleasure you have to control. I used to think after that BAM & pop that I had hurt myself or done damage. NOPE, just my ass stretching its limits.
some times a little pink, usually not. Thats not to say that at some point in time you will have a big toy that will not go in, no matter what you do.

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[john257675]

wow.... that's hot

[ffenice]

It really just depends on the toy. Long toys that are for going deep, try your back or lay on your side. For big wide toys, you need to be on your feet (or toes) and squat on that bitch. Big hit of poppers....I mean a BIG hit...and get down on it and push!! Eventually you will start to open up -- maybe not that session but you will get to knwo your limits and push yourself further, especially when you thought you've ruptured something only to find out you are perfectly okay -- not blood nothing and then wishing you would have control it better and stuck with it. Get inside your head and listen to you body...but also let your brain tell your body that it needs to relax and let it happen.

Pig4toys what are you trying to say? I agree with 'listen to your body' but what is this about 'a BIG hit... and get down and push!! etc and 'when you thought you've ruptured something!!! that's looking for disaster, I'm sorry but your post makes no sense to me. You should never push to the point you think you've ruptured something. Push gently, when you are at a point of limit try moving the dildo or your body in a circular motion, depending on which is in the best position to move, that way it will follow the natural curves of your body. Slowly things will stretch and expand and you will have room for deeper or wider or both. Poppers and other drugs can enhance the sensations and relax you somewhat but Fisting and all intense ass play is in your head. Never be in too much of a hurry, enjoy each step of the journey because there is plenty of pleasure to be had in each step.

[owen2032]

I agree,

As experienced fisters it's your duty to NOT encourage dangerous bahavior. Fisting and large toy play is about exploring your body's limits and gradual expansion. Not about "Taking a huge hit of poppers and pushing till you feel a pop" That pop could be the side of your colon blowing out.

And by the way.... You should NEVER do poppers when exploring new depths or widths!!! You want to be able to feel the pain so that you can accurately determine when enough is enough.

SAFETY FIRST!!!!!

[ffenice]

On the subject of best position, I would generally go for squat or else kneeling (similar to squat but more stable, you may need something under the dildo to keep it in a higher position) but on your back you can also turn dildos so sometimes that can be a useful option when looking for the best direction. It is important to be in a position that is relaxing, the best fun with dildos is had in company then you can get into the sling if you have one. :D