FF Given Up

[acook59]

Hi guys,

I've tried for years to get into playing with my own hole, dildos, fucking, fingers etc and i just couldn't really get into it, it's such a disconcerting feeling. I had an operation for an anal fissure over 6 months ago and now i've got tons of big skin tags around my hole now, gotta wait for another 6 months to have them removed.....more pain and blood and soreness, not nice.

Has anyone else just given up? If only i could have a rosebud or prolapse in cupboard to get out and play with sometime. I can dream!

[vpfa]

I once met a guy who was not "built" to take a fist. His insides did turns that did not allow for a hand to fit properly. He could get wide short stuff in, but not deep. But don't give up ff; just become a top! Lot's of people will be greatful.

[adventure_as]

I really think your "problem " is not physical (taking into account your medical condition at the moment) it's more mentally. For any "beginner" it feels like you do not make any progress, but remember, it's a journey, not a destination ! Obviously you must have a desire to play with your arse and as it takes time to "adjust" to the feeling (stretching & depth), just enjoy the gratification you are getting from it at the moment. As your arse get used to the stimulation, it will "open" up naturally for deeper play. I have battled for nearly a year before I could take a real big toy, but MENTALLY I WAS DETERMEND TO TAKE A HAND ! And eventually I did and can go as deep as an elbow now - that is if your are "into" depth"

[barrowboys]

Yes, i agree that it can take what seems like forever to get any depth, but bit by bit i have achieved my goal 18" in length but a wonderful 3" dia and i can now sit on that all the way to the base and it feels nice and comfortable. My trouble is I tend to sit on it for hours at a time so when i do let it come out , my hole will not shut for a couple of days. Its such a sensual feeling and i can keep an erection.

[inigo]

I only really got into trying to take big things in the past year or so. Found someone that was also a beginner as a top and we took the time to work together to find out what works. The feel of a hand going into you the first couple of times can feel uncomfortable and not worth it, but after a bit more of a play it can produce the most amazing orgasms. I'd encourage anyone vaguely interested to keep at it and give it a real try. But I do agree it isn't for everyone.

[acook59]

Hmmm maybe it's because i just find douching rather uncomfortable, maybe my irritable bowel syndrome doesn't help this either!