Bleeding

[aalaidback]

can someone please advise me on this issue i have. i manage to open up quite easily, although am more of a handballer than deep fistee. sometimes i seem to bleed quite a bit. as far as i know i don't have heamorroids and just wonder what i can do about it. even when my top is slow and gentle this still happens...thanks:confused:

[filo]

i bleed a lot sometimes too. no biggy.

[Fillings]

... i manage to open up quite easily, although am more of a handballer than deep fistee. sometimes i seem to bleed quite a bit. as far as i know i don't have heamorroids and just wonder what i can do about it. even when my top is slow and gentle this still happens...
Sometimes I bleed too. After all, getting a bit of pink happens to all of us. For some tops it can be off-putting, for others, they can gauge accurately if it's just a little thing that needs a rest for a few minutes, or if it's an end-of-session event.

What about when you use toys by yourself? Do you get bleeding then? You may have an internal haemorrhoid (isn't that a bugger of a word to spell? Especially for us Australians who have to include an 'ae' at the beginning) which can be inside without causing any discomfort. To put your mind at rest, go to see your GP and ask for some advice. Be as frank as you can without causing yourself fatal amounts of embarrassment. Hopefully your GP won't faint if you say that you enjoy vigorous anal sex. VERY vigorous. in fact.:D

Maybe your rectal walls are just very delicate! In which case you need a prescription of one good rogering three times a day, applied manually, to toughen them up. Callouses in your arse! That's what you need! Good luck;)

[paulo68]

If find if I get a bit of pink, just give it rest for a 1/2 hr. It seems when I get back to it there is no more.

[ronronnypa]

I some times ok most time I work my ass pretty hard with larger toy and yes I do bleed pretty heavy to but I do just keep pumpimg my ass hard and fast and when I am done I always give myself a good cleaning out and that seem good and in a hour or two sit on the toilet and ass juice and some blood finish wipe and it seems good from there but yes I do seem to bleed more than most

[AtlantaB]

Might you have an internal hemorrhoid or possibly a polyp? Significant bleeding is a sign that something's not quite right. To be sure make an appointment with a proctologist.

[aalaidback]

Thanks for the posts...can't believe I send this out so long ago...how time and a more relaxed sphincters make for easier deep and non bleeding fisting :smile:

I do agree that its important to have a doctor that you feel comfortable enough to chat about sexual activities...even at the risk of a wee bit of blushing, which seems to happen to me occasionally :redface:

[Fistrik]

I had small bleedings with quite some different lubes. Since I only use J-Lube, I never have bleedings anymore.

Recently a local shop asked me to test an new lube, powder to be dissolved in water, just like J-Lube. It gave me serious bleedings after 10 minutes of playing. And it took many hours before it stopped bleeding. Even the next morning, blood came out of my ass. I tried the stuff a few times and talked about it with my doctor. She said it was most likely an allergic reaction on one of the ingredients.
I also told the guy from the shop, but he never heard any stories like mine before.

So my suggestion: try some different lubes.