Question about bleeding

[les_evil]

I have a question about bleeding: A guy I hooked up with had these fab videos and profile. When we met he was a lotttttt older than he said. He wanted to be punch fucked, so I obliged. I took out some latex gloves to see if he wanted me to use them -- he went nuts!!!! He said he could go into anaphylatic shock from latex -- he said it hapens to doctors also who get allergic to latex -- so I go in barehanded. I start with lots of Crisco and immediately there is dried blood when I exit. He says don't worry. I wipe my hand and try again -- more blood. So I wipe and terminate proceedings. He went balistic! He threatened and cajoled but I put him out.
My question: I knew he was a poz bttm, and he had his Truvada with him; I have no cuts on my hands, and first coated my hands with thick Zinc Oxide, so, given that it was a lousy fuck, what are my chances of picking up something from his dried blood?? It wasn't a lotta blood, but enough to think that mebbe I scraped his walls.
Comments/ Ideas??

[ffenice]

If you had no cuts on your hands you should be relatively safe regarding HIV, and hopefully also for HepC. I don't know anything about Zinc Oxide, is that a sort of cream mothers use for nappy rash? If so I imagine it provides some sort of protection.
In any case if the guy had a latex alergy he ought to have had his own vynil gloves or else he should have told you he was a barebacker before he met you. He must have been into bareback anyhow, I don't know about you but I would always bring gloves. It's such a sickening state of affairs with these bareback maniacs who get high and mighty about their right to do bareback. I find it so selfish and antisocial. In future establish the safety rules before you meet up, in anycase you were right to call it off
If a guy wants to play bareback it's his choice of course, but he cannot expect it to be the norm and he has to lay his cards on the table before he actually meets up with someone. If he doesn't have consent and does have a STD he is breaking the law in many countries.

[bigstretch]

Sorry, what is STD?

[LondonSeeker]

Sorry, what is STD?

Sexually Transmitted Disease

[mudd]

latex gloves are usually non alergenic and the scene simply wouldnt have even started once he said no gloves

[LungFF]

I have a question about bleeding: ...
My question: I knew he was a poz bttm, and he had his Truvada with him; I have no cuts on my hands, and first coated my hands with thick Zinc Oxide ... what are my chances of picking up something from his dried blood?? It wasn't a lotta blood, but enough to think that mebbe I scraped his walls.
Comments/ Ideas??

Having come from that angle of things (Top finding blood). I can say your chances are fairly slim. You are more likely to pick up an STD than hiv.

The fact he was willing to play before he fully heals and does not care about it, tells me he does not care about what happens to those he plays with. This is a very selfish-centered person.

You were perfectly right in sending him on his way.

You have just as much right to continue or stop any session or scene as he does.

Many bottoms/vers forget the topping person has just as much right to the plug for whatever reason. (not comfortable, something just is not right, a hunch - ...)

[mr. toyman]

I too, am a bleeder almost anytime I take a hand and it usually is a Big hand which I prefer, I do tell sometimes since I am POZ, but is it wrong that I want to continue
the session??

[warrior48]

If we ake chances we have to take the responsibility tht goes with it. My man bleeds now and then and he is HIV. My choice really as I am not. I fuck Him raw too, does that make me the fool ?

[AtlantaB]

That's your choice. I've been in the same position and I would let him bareback me. We broke up, and I'm not poz. But I could have been.

[PIGGY1984]

I think you are all nuts for playing around with these fools. I would never risk it with anyone who is positive. It's this laxadaisy attitude which is why aids is so previllant. I can't believe I'm the only one who thinks this way, surely.

[AtlantaB]

Maybe you've never been in love Piggy?

[owen2032]

I think you are all nuts for playing around with these fools. I would never risk it with anyone who is positive. It's this laxadaisy attitude which is why aids is so previllant. I can't believe I'm the only one who thinks this way, surely.

Agree 100 PERCENT. Perhaps that is why they call it survival of the fittest! Sorry guys but in this case I HAVE TO agree with Piggy. Now if you go and take that risk and get HIV then sure, you deserve what ever happens to you but if you get HIV and don;t take precautions to protect the next person you play with, this in my eyes makes you a pretty terrible person. If the person you're playing with is Neg and you're Poz. Show him or her some respect and be honest about your situation and if they decide to continue unprotected then it is your responsibility to STOP and end the session. It is YOUR responsibility to make sure that what you have does not get transmitted to someone else. Sober drunk or high, don't matter.
:)